When you live in the technology age, the kids are enamored by all that is offered.
Austin is 10 years old. He has been wanting a phone for a LONG time.
I haven’t been able to justify in my mind, turning this into fruition.
But, with recent discussions with an outside, non-biased person, it was brought to light, that rather than focusing on “why he cannot have this” let’s talk about “how it can be possible to have this.”
Working to get something is a very valuable lesson that will carry through life experiences and is something that should be learned at a young age.
So.. with that said, Austin & I came up with a plan for him to get this “Dream” item for him, on his own.
He is eager to mow lawns. We have ours, my aunt’s, my brother’s and possibly my step-sister’s house in the lineup. In addition, he will incorporate some smaller chores around the house to be able to meet his monthly bill, plus pay back what he owes me from a past issue.
This agreement should be fair, and there are some rules involved with this new device. He is, after all, only 10 years old.
There are expectations that he must follow, in order to obtain and maintain this new found freedom.
So, as my title mentioned, money is motivation, because he really wants to have this “thing” and he needs to be able to make “money” to get it and keep it.
The same goes for Autumn.. she wanted a new game for her computer. Well, she came to me asking what can she do to earn $25 today. I provided her a long list of items, and she completed each and every one. So, I kept my word, and gave her the money. She was happy for that.
Austin’s is a long-term agreement, so there is more commitment involved. He will be set up for success, but it is up to him, to maintain.
This will not be anyone’s fault, but his own, if the money is not in the account when the bill comes due. This will also be a hard lesson for him, and one that I will have to follow through with, if and when it comes to pass.
I only wish him success, but this is completely up to him.
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