Let Freedom Ring

Here we are, approaching the day of celebration, the 4th of July. Indpendence Day.

We have so much to reflect upon, both in the world around us, and most importantly, within ourselves.

As a nation, we are definitely not united. But, the question is, have we ever been united, in our country’s history?

I am reading so much lately about our history. It’s not pretty. We overcame many obstacles, our forefathers encountered countless walls, blocking their vision for this country. It was a long fight, blood was shed, families were torn apart, towns destroyed, and relationships drifted. Yet, they prevailed.

I am grateful for what we have today, yet reflecting on what we used to have and lost. Scared about what the kids of our future will have, and the challenges they will have to face. The world is getting darker and colder, and nothing seems to stand true anymore.

We have responsibilities as parents to instill strong moral codes, that when they become leaders one day, they will know why they believe what they do.

I am challenging myself to be open to others views, understand where they’re coming from, and not be so closed-minded in my ways. I admit that I am very opinionated, and stand strong in what I believe to be true. (whether or not it is).. It’s just the way I was raised to believe, and never questioning things.

My children teach me everyday, that I need to be open minded for discussions, really listen to their viewpoints, without condemning or judging.

I love that our country stands for freedom, justice, and fighting for what is right.

I do not love what is happening around us daily. I know that some of these groups have a purpose beyond destruction, but it’s out of control.

I am sheltering my children from the bad and ugliness out there, but I know I also have the responsibility of teaching them the realness out there too.

I don’t even understand these things that are going on, so it’s definitely going to be difficult to explain to young children, and expect them to comprehend too.

I live in a bubble. Working at home, having groceries delivered, staying home, no traveling, avoiding large crowds, not attending peaceful protests, not getting in heated debates on social media; just being.. I like to think we are all trying to live our lives to the best of our abilities, not expecting a hand out. Working an honest day of work, for an honest wage, believing in the good intentions of others, maintaining my life goals, working hard to meet or exceed them, and raise good kids with manners, respect, and leadership skills.

So much happening, so many chaotic situations, and I want no part of it.

Protecting my kids is my number one priority, and giving them the American dream.

High hopes? I think not.. Reality? I dream so.

So this July 4th, 2020….Let freedom ring, wave the American Flag high and proud. Patriotism is important. I am missing our annual tradition parade in Bella Vista this year. Honoring the veterans who served, are still serving, and who are no longer living. I love our military and all that we stand for. I love our flag, our patriotic songs, and I love the fireworks blasting in the air, where you can feel the boom in your chest. I have these things in my heart, and I so hope that feeling of being “proud to be an American” never fades.

I want so much for my children to have this feeling too.

In the meantime, 2020 is bringing so much to the table. Beyond words….