Just when you think the world is dark and gray, with no end in sight of challenges, there is an opportunity that presents itself. It might just possibly be the most needed thing in our lives.
A couple of months ago, a friend of mine told me that her son is part of the Big Brothers Big Sisters program, and loves it. They match your child up with a mentor (either a teenager or could be an adult) who has similar interests, and can help enrich their life, by spending time with them. 2-3 times per month, a couple of hours at a time. Taking them to do things, someone they can look up to, and learn from. I thought that sounded like a great program, but at that time, I was thinking my life is just too busy. There is no time right now to add another “thing.”
Well, I was laying in bed late one night this week, reflecting on recent life events. I was just trying to think of all the recent crazy and negative behaviors both boys have been expressing, and I remembered my conversation with my friend. So, I looked the big brothers big sisters program online, and there was an application right there, that I could submit through their site. I filled out 1 for each boy, thinking, we’ll see how this goes..
The next morning, I received a phone call from the coordinator, and we have a meeting scheduled during spring break to discuss further. They will meet the boys, get to know their interests, so they can match them up appropriately with a mentor. I’m so excited about this, I just want to jump up and down here!!! I really think this is an area in their lives that is lacking. Someone to just spend time with them, one on one, quality time. Expressing interest in what they like, and really taking the time to get to know them. Guiding them. I can only do so much. Theses boys need a good male role model, to actively be involved with them. This is the perfect program, in my mind!
Another positive this week, is the school that Austin has been temporarily placed in for an ALE program, is going to pursue testing for autism, or any other behavior issues that they see, that could help get him the help he needs to be successful in school. He is a smart kid, just needs some extra guidance, attention, and support. I love our public school system, and I can’t believe I was ever hesitant to send my kids here. I was raised in private school my entire life, so public schools were always thought of as the place where the “bad” kids go, and the teachers don’t care.. That is NOT true AT ALL. Those stereotypes are just plain WRONG!
I know that I am blessed beyond measure in our area, and the staff at all the schools I’ve encountered are amazing! They love the kids, they love what they do, and are 100% dedicated to the students succeeding.
Always hold on to hope for great things, because I am determined that great things are in store for us!!
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